Her Alter Ego

The drastic need for this exercise came to me after a conversation I had with a gorgeous ex girlfriend of mine.

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Her words exactly to me were.

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"Michael, you know what your problem is? You choose woman by who is going to be a good F&CK."

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When she said it, I laughed, because she was great in bed, and she was totally right.

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I can tell if a woman is a good lay by watching the way she walks around in a nice restaurant or bar.​

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However, she wasn't laughing, and as I paused and put myself in her shoes, I felt a great sense of shame, guilt, and disgusting selfishness.

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In life we will eventually find what we are looking for, but how would I ever find love if I was only looking for sex.

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How could I ever be successful in long term relationships if I was only ever focused on physical attraction?

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In your current relationship, you took the next step, you chose to enter into a relationship with your partner because she offered something more than just sex.

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But.... can you define it?

You know its there, but are you clear on it or are you still focused on her beauty.

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Your relationship problems will vanish when you learn to put sex, beauty, and physical attraction second.

 

Prioritize​ understanding how her feminine energy is complimenting you as a man.

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You need to Identify and show appreciation for her non sexual female attributes.

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She is not just a piece of meat and she will never feel completely safe unless you can explain why she really is a special woman.

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She will appreciate it and your relationship will start to thrive again.

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More importantly, you will appreciate her to a whole other level. No more second guessing yourself, no more wondering what else is out there, just a renewed assurance in the woman that you love.

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Its time to draw her closer to you than ever before, reignite the bedroom, and feel optimistic about your future together.