Her Alter Ego

The drastic need for this exercise came to me after a conversation I had with a gorgeous ex girlfriend of mine.

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Her words exactly to me were.

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"Michael, you know what your problem is? You choose woman by who is going to be a good F&CK."

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When she said it, I laughed, because she was great in bed, and she was totally right.

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I can tell if a woman is a good lay by watching the way she walks around in a nice restaurant or bar.​

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However, she wasn't laughing, and as I paused and put myself in her shoes, I felt a great sense of shame, guilt, and disgusting selfishness.

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In life we will eventually find what we are looking for, but how would I ever find love if I was only looking for sex.

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How could I ever be successful in long term relationships if I was only ever focused on physical attraction?

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