Understand Your Wife or Girlfriend

If you are like most men, you had no clear understanding of your emotional needs when you started this current relationship. 

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If you are not clear on your needs as a man, your woman can't help you.

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You must  be able to state the difference between what you want and what you need from your woman.

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Your needs are emotional and if YOU don't have control of your emotions then then SHE does.

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You are at her mercy until you sort this out.

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If your relationship often makes you feel ANGRY, then you have work to do.

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Anger is a natural and very common response, but it can only damage your relationship.

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Your woman knows exactly what she wants emotionally.

She spent years crafting a plan to get it from you.

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In your efforts to please her, you have become a pawn in her game of life.

You have lost control.

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Without a clear understanding, without a solid sense of self, you have no choice but to go along with her plan.

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She is not meeting your true needs because can't even define them to yourself.

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This exact same thing happened to me many years ago. 

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Without a clear purpose, without a solid foundation of self worth, without an established understanding of my own true emotional needs. My fiance changed me into someone I did not like.

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Slowly over time she chipped away at who I was and I had no reason to stop her.

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In my struggle to keep her happy I became a weak and broken man.

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The real me was gone and only a shell was left.

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So what the hell are we supposed to do about this?

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I created an exercise that I call Her Alter Ego.

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Click the link to learn more about this exercise and how we are going to rebuild your confidence, self esteem, and sex life.